Partner Likeability: A Factor in Associate Retention
The Detroit (Great Lakes) regional office of one of the leading organizational consulting firms in the country, Right Management, recently published an email newsletter article on "likeability" - defined as a person's capacity to consistently produce positive emotional experiences in the lives of other people. Based in part on groundbreaking research by author Tim Sanders, author of The Likeability Factor, the article notes that "likeable" business leaders are more effective at inspiring, motivating and engaging their employees, attracting and retaining new employees, and building trust and confidence of those they try to lead; in contrast, "disliked" leaders risk compromising the success and profitability of a business.
The article submits that "likeability" is a skill that can be developed and nurtured with appropriate training. What is required is for individuals to step outside themselves, listen to the tone of their voice, observe their style of dealing with others, listen to feedback from others, and gauge their effectiveness in influencing others.
The article provides a link to a "likeability" assessment developed by Tim Sanders that individuals can take to measure their "likeability" score (it asks questions like - "do you smile often and have a pleasant voice?" or "do you have a postive and optimistic attitude even when things are going badly?")
See the full article here.
The relevant message for law firms is that many associates cite difficult or mean-spirited partners as a major reason for leaving their jobs and transitioning to another firm. According to a study by CareerBuilder.com, “the quality of an employee’s relationship with a supervisor is the #1 variable affecting why people stay or quit.” Applying this notion to law firms at a recent forum sponsored by the Women's Bar Association of Washington, D.C., Eric L. Bernthal, a managing partner at Latham & Watkins LLP, explained that individual relationships between supervisors and junior lawyers are the crucible where career decisions get made, and the basis upon which many attorneys decide whether to stay at a firm or leave.
It therefore behooves firms interested in reducing associate turnover to provide training to their partners and other supervising attorneys about how to be more "likeable," and thereby become more effective managers and leaders. Training might cover skills such as "how to provide an effective performance review," "how to communicate expectations," and "how to provide constructive criticism." Instead of using fear and humilitation, supervising attorneys need to learn how to inspire and motivate through respect and decency. What is at stake is keeping associates happy, or watching them walk out the doors - at a major cost to the firm.




Typically, it's been tough going for attorneys who temporarily stopped practicing law to spend more time with family or for other personal reasons, and then seek to return to law firm jobs after the kids were grown or family finances changed. Such attorneys were often viewed as not being serious about their careers. Firms also struggled with questions of hierarchy - that is, where to position an older, returning attorney within the firm in terms of pay and rank.
Lawyers with kids who constantly find themselves stuck at the office each night might want to consider periodicially scheduling a "family dinner" night -- may we suggest once a week? Research by The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) at Columbia University consistently finds that the more often children eat dinner with their families, the less likely they are to smoke, drink or use drugs. CASA adds that the conversations that go hand-in-hand with dinner will help you learn more about your children’s lives and better understand the challenges they face.
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In a recent article, Law.com reported that President-elect of the California State Bar Association, Sheldon Sloan, has launched a civility initiative "aimed at cracking down on what he and many others perceive to be a rapidly rising increase in rude and rancorous run-ins between attorneys in all practices of law." Non-lawyers might think this is some kind of joke ("What? two intelligent, well-educated adults can't behave amicably to each other?"), but the truth is that with clients expecting their attorneys to act like bulldogs in board rooms and court rooms, anecdotal evidence indicates that the level of disrespect and discourtesy between lawyers continues to descend to new lows.
Back to the California State Bar program: Sloan cited various examples of incivility that anyone practicing law will immediately recognize: lawyers who schedule depositions to derail opposing counsel's vacation schedule, big firms that paper solo practitioners to death, or attorneys scheduling hearings for the day after Thanksgiving when many people take long weekends (note: all examples from litigation practice - any "war stories" from transactional attorneys???).
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